BOOK

"Ai" Toiu Na No Yasashi Boryoku Sono Iki Zura Sa Ha Doko Kara Kita No Ka

Saito Manabu / Cho

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Release Date September 2020
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Catalog No.NEOBK-2536253
JAN/ISBN 9784594086022
Product Type BOOK
Pages 219

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[Machine Translation] The so-called "good children" and "nice people" have a harder time living in today's society. Children who grow up in homes filled with "kindness," where they do not make waves, read each other's airs, and behave in a way that does not betray others' expectations, eventually lose sight of their own desires and needs. The child will not develop a sense of self, but will only be able to live a codependent life in which his or her life is based on reading and responding to the expectations of others.

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Description in Japanese

「愛」という名のやさしい暴力 その生きづらさはどこからきたのか / 斎藤学/著

いわゆる「良い子」や「いい人」ほど、現代社会では生きづらさを抱えている。波風を立てず、空気を読み合って、相手の期待を裏切らないよう振る舞う「やさしさ」が充満している家庭で育った子は、やがて自分の願望や欲求を見失っていく。自己は育たず、他者の期待を読み取り、それに応えることが人生だという共依存的な生き方しかできなくなってしまう。

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    第1章 「愛」「期待」という名のやさしい暴力
    2
    第2章 「母」という呪い
    3
    第3章 機能不全の家族
    4
    第4章 人の役に立たなくていい
    5
    第5章 安心して無気力でいましょう
    6
    第6章 「ダメな自分」にもパワーがある
    7
    第7章 悩みを言葉にできれば解決に向かう

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