[Machine Translation] The so-called "good children" and "nice people" have a harder time living in today's society. Children who grow up in homes filled with "kindness," where they do not make waves, read each other's airs, and behave in a way that does not betray others' expectations, eventually lose sight of their own desires and needs. The child will not develop a sense of self, but will only be able to live a codependent life in which his or her life is based on reading and responding to the expectations of others.